Inspired by Paulette Kelly’s poem “I Got Flowers Today,” this artwork bearing the same title mourns the tragic deaths of women, alongside Home, Sweet Home 홈, 스위트 홈 (2022). 

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From a distance, viewers can see numerous black strings hanging vertically from a frame suspended from the ceiling, and as they get closer, they can see black female gender symbols hanging beneath each string. When viewers enter the space surrounded by the strings and look up, they see colorful paper flowers filling the frame, revealing that the frame is indeed a coffin frame. 

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The paper flowers in this artwork are inspired by the elaborate paper flower decorations commonly used in traditional Korean funeral processions to adorn the bier carrying the deceased. The colorful flowers symbolize the hope for the deceased to go to a better place. 

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I Got Flowers Today

By Paulette Kelly

I got flowers today!
It wasn’t my birthday or any other special day.
We had our first argument last night;
And he said a lot of cruel things that really hurt;
I know that he is sorry and didn’t mean to say the things he said;
Because he sent me flowers today.

I got flowers today.
It wasn’t our anniversary or any other special day.
Last night, he threw me into a wall and started to choke me.
It seemed like a nightmare.
I couldn’t believe that it was real.
I woke up this morning sore and bruised all over.
I know he must be sorry.
Because he sent me flowers today.

I got flowers today!
It wasn’t our anniversary or any other special day;
Last night he threw me into a wall and then started choking me;
It seemed unreal, a nightmare, but you wake up from nightmares;
And I woke up this morning sore and bruised all over—but I know he is sorry;
Because he sent me flowers today.

I got flowers today!
And it wasn’t Valentines Day or any other special day;
Last night he beat me and threatened to kill me;
Make-up and long sleeves didn’t hide the cuts and bruises this time;
I couldn’t go to work today because I didn’t want anyone to know—but I know
he’s sorry;
Because he sent me flowers today.

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I got flowers today!
And it wasn’t Mother’s Day or any other special day;
Last night he beat me again, and it was worse than all of the other times;
If I leave him, what will I do? How will I take care of the kids? What about
money?
I’m afraid of him, but I’m too scared and dependent to leave him! But he
must be sorry;
Because he sent me flowers today.

I got flowers today….
Today was a special day—it was the day of my funeral;
Last night he killed me;
If only I would have gathered the courage and strength to leave him;
I could have received help from the Women’s Shelter, but I didn’t ask for
their help;
So I got flowers today—for the last time.

* The texts in bold are by me.